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Fairy Tale Role Models study guide

When we discover the story or role we identified with in our childhood, that story becomes simply an emphasis on some of our talents rather than a role which can bind us to an unconscious script enslaving us with old habits.    ...more


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Fairy Tale Role Models audio book
Audo Book Read in the Studio by the Author with her commentary.

This information-packed CD is the audio companion to Heather Carlile's Fairy Tale Role Model Study Guide. Listen to the author on audio CD while driving, or doing repetitive tasks, or as you use the Study Guide. Heather reads the contents of the study guide aloud while adding commentary and coaching throughout.   ...more


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Fairy Tale Role Models seminar recorded live
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Heather Carlile in the Classroom

PERSONAL INTERACTION: This recording enables you to experience Heather's personal mentoring in the classroom helping her students identify their childhood role models and how they became life scripts.   ...more


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Grief Recovery
A Journey of Spiritual and Psychological Growth
by Heather Carlile
Healing from Losses and Wounds
Emotional pain is not a sickness. Feeling sad, angry, guilty and afraid is mourning. It is our natural and healthy emotional response to traveling the unpredictable path through loss, discouragement, disempowerment and adversity. Emotions show us what we care about and they guarantee that we move forward. Grieving ensures that we heal from our losses and wounds through letting go, accepting the loss and facing the future.    ...more


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Fairy Tale Role Models study guide
When we can identify the story or role we identified with in our childhood, it emphasizes some of our talents and it no longer holds us to an unconscious script which may carry bad habits.

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A PATTERN FOR LIFE: During our childhood growth and learning, most of us identified with role models and ideals based on a favorite hero or a character in a story. Those views of life become our personalities and lifestyles. We can understand some of our habits through identifying those old traditional or archetypal patterns. At that point we can question whether they reflect our true ideals and goals and avoid self-sabotage. The study guide walks you through keeping the gifts and removing the invisible curses you carry unconsciously as a result of what was missing in how you were scripted.

DISSOLVING THE LIMITATIONS: As in most tales, the efficacy of the fable or the character is not universal and, therefore, inherently provides strengths while it also disempowers by exclusion. We can strengthen ourselves by learning how we recognized positive qualities and developed them. We can also reveal how the archetype or role model illustrates our limitations and continues to hold us back by fooling us into believing we also possess and are limited by the missing or under-developed aspects of the personality or the lifestyle in the story. Some people have a group of characters that illustrate one archetype such as in the superhero: Superman, The Hulk, Batman or Spider Man. Some people may not have bonded with a tale and, instead, had a pattern of play, outdoor adventures or of favorite games as the first archetypal role.

PREPARING OUR CHILDREN: Through learning how our own childhood influences affected our life scripts, we may also learn how to select recreation, television, books and movies to school our children. Through the stories, myths and role models they experience, we can help ensure their self-esteem, character and success with abilities in all aspects of a good life: self-confidence, motivation, intimacy and competency. Heroes and heroines can be our source of greatness and happiness.

Fairy Tale Role Models audio book
Audo Book Read in the Studio by the Author with her commentary.

This information-packed CD is the audio companion to Heather Carlile's Fairy Tale Role Model Study Guide. Listen to the author on audio CD while driving, or doing repetitive tasks, or as you use the Study Guide. Heather reads the contents of the study guide aloud while adding commentary and coaching throughout.

AUDIO BOOK WITH COMMENTARY: Heather Carlile reads her study guide coaching you through the step-by-step process in The Fairy Tale Role Models Study Guide. This is one of the most powerful and enjoyable ways she has developed for her private practice and workshops to zero in on strengthening some of your abilities and stopping some of your most pervasive unconscious self-sabotaging patterns.

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Through the years of working with clients in my private practice and students in my classes, I have sought, discovered and created various methods for helping people heal, learn and grow. We have learned that most human beings use a fraction of their potential. I aim to rely on that latent greatness in each person and to invoke its abilities for practical empowerment.

When you examine the personalities and lifestyles of your favorite role models through your early years, you will find a surprisingly accurate picture of your aspirations to be a good person and to adapt to adversity.

We learn by example what is conveyed and what is NOT conveyed. With knowledge of the gifts and the curses, we can understand how to take advantage of both lessons: keep the gift and avoid the shadow. My wish is that, like my private practice clients and students, you can benefit from my mentoring through this interesting and accessible concept of archetypes for yourself and for the children in your life. May this guide awaken meaningful insights and inspiration.

Fairy Tale Role Models seminar recorded live
Heather Carlile in the Classroom

PERSONAL INTERACTION: This recording enables you to experience Heather's personal mentoring in the classroom helping her students identify their childhood role models and how they became life scripts.

HEATHER CARLILE LIVE: This two-CD set is a companion to Heather Carlile's Fairy Tale Role Model Study Guide. When we can recall the story or role model we identified with in childhood, we can be grateful for the strengths we developed but, also, expose the qualities we missed. The role model can then no longer hold us to an unconscious life script.

She shows how to identify each person’s story or character and how they inspired or assisted you as children. Then you can hear how the individuals discover that their most cherished heroes and heroines hindered them with invisible biases.

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Grief Recovery
A Journey of Spiritual and Psychological Growth
by Heather Carlile

This Study Guide was created by Heather and is used in her Grief Recovery Groups.order Heather Carlile’s Grief Recovery Guide as a book or download it immediately as an ebook.

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Table of Contents

I. Understanding Grief
Natural Responses to Loss    1
You Know You’re Grieving When    2
Identify Your Sub-Losses    3
Help Others Help You    4

II. Letting Go
The Three Stages of Grief    5
The Grief Model    6
Permission to Grieve    7
The Four Tasks of Mourning    9
The Seriously Ill    10

III. Broken Dreams
Releasing Those You’ve Loved    11
Those Who Have Loved You    14
Loss is Losing a Dream    15

IV. First Two Stages of Grief
Purpose of Denial    17
Purpose of Anxiety    18

 V. Importance of Writing
Letter to God    19
Writing and Journaling    20
The Benefits of Journaling    23

VI. Emotional Intelligence
The Purpose of Depression    25
The Purpose of Guilt    25
The Purpose of Fear    26
Adversity Inspires Growth    26
What Do I Say?    27
Listening    28

VII. Understanding Anger
Anger is Normal    29
Expressing Anger Appropriately    31
Using the Power of Anger    33
Laughter and Humor Even When Grieving    33

VIII. The Stress of Grieving
Taking Care of Your Physical Strength    35
Touch and Nurturing    35
Water – The Universal Cleanser    36
Free Fun!    37
Manage Stress and Learn to Relax    38

IX. Spiritual Support
Meditation and Prayer    39
Prayer Partners    41
Master Mind Partnership    41

X. Why God Gives Troubles
Adversity Inspires Growth    47
Acceptance of Reality    47
Acceptance Scroll    48

XI. Forgiving and Blessing
Taking Responsibility    49
Removing Internal Emotional Blocks    49
Forgiving Others and Yourself    50
5 Steps to Forgiveness    52
Blessing Scroll    53

XII. Finding Faith
Seeing the Signs of God’s Love    54
The Vision Quest    55
Fear Becomes Faith    55
Discernment Scroll    56

Recommended Resources    58
After Awhile    60

Heather Carlile  · MA · LPC     
1701 N. Collins Blvd., #126 · Richardson · TX 75080     
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Heather Carlile, a certified LPC and LMFT Supervisor, whose private practice is in Richardson, TX, specializes in depth psychology and marriage counseling. Her unique transpersonal philosophy, which she uses to relieve anxiety, depression, guilt, anger and grief, integrates archetypes and the Enneagram. She created and co-facilitates Designer Marriage with her husband, Dr. Jack Waldenmaier in classes and on the radio.

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